So today January 10th 2008 was a good day for me. I had spent the last 9 months fighting for what I wanted when it came to Hayden. It was official I got everything I wanted (but the name change) It was about 3:00pm on a Friday after noon and I was so excited I didnt know what to do. Shawn had nothing and I had it all Full legal custody of my baby and all the stress, fighting had finaly paid off. So in my excitement I agreed to let Shawn see Hayden that night. (mind you before this date the last time he had seen Hayden was April 22nd '07) So I meet him at Mc Donalds on Classen and Expressway. They ate dinner and he never once looked at me or said more then 5 words to me. (whatever didnt matter to me) So we meet there at 5:30 and were outa there by 7.
Since then Shawn has tried to contact us to set up visitations (only with my parents and when and where its convient for my parents) and he NO SHOWED... that was in July then we did not hear from him again until December 20th and again he never replied to us trying to set something up.
So it is January 10th, 2009 and its been 1 full year since Shawn has seen Hayden. Now dont get me wrong I wish Shawn would man up and be a father because when he was in his father roll and just focused on Hayden he was great... but he was just a total ass to me and an acoholic and I would not put up with it anymore. Even thought Hayden has not seen his "birth father" God blessed us with a perfect man. Scott and I met in March of '08 and he is the best father Dad Hayden could ever have. I am truly blessed that he is in our life and willing to step up where Shawn left off and be the Father/Dad Hayden needs in his life.
So for that Today has been a WONDERFUL day.
Bet you I will hear from Shawn around maybe Hayden's birthday on the 26th or Fathers day when he all of a sudden gets a guilty soul and thinks oh shit let me be a father for a day then when he calles and we set something up.. he will just do it again and come up with a lame excuse on why he cant make it or he will just not call at all.
Ok done venting... Wonderful Day 1 year later...
2 comments:
It sounds to me - just through your blogs, of course - that Scott is a good man and a great father to Hayden...and I am so happy for you and Hayden to have someone like that in your life. I have a friend that is going through an identical situation with her son - and she has found a man just like Scott and it makes me so happy for her. Here is to a FANTASTIC 2009 for your family..can hardly wait to see you in a couple of weeks!
Thanks Jaimie. It is going to be a FANTASTIC 2009!!! Its going to be fun at the party and cant wait to see you either its been a while. See you soon.
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